Only You Lord, and only in a book called Lamentations, would put the words “good” and “wait” together. Humans don’t tend to think of waiting in terms of “good.”
There was first the wait for healing, as my brain and our family and our marriage first rested and then grew strong again. Then the silent pain of unexplained years of infertility. Finally the expectant wait of gestation, with its joy and its impatience. Then two weeks of false labor. If waiting is good, then we have had our fill of good!
But when our Answer came, she came in a great gush of power and joy. Barely two and a half hours of intense contractions, ten or so minutes of willing my body to hold the baby a little longer and not to push in the car on the way to the hospital, and maybe two minutes of pushing while Daddy’s sure hands guided, and she was in Daddy’s arms and then mine, her warm slippery body finally pressed up close to my heart.
And then.... Look, look, look. Look at those wet, cupid’s bow lips. Look at those slate-grey eyes. Look at that perfect nose. Look at that copper hair. Look, look at how one ear is just a bit different than the other, look how every fingernail is perfectly formed, look how her toes spread and her legs cross and her elbows dimple when they bend and her skin goes quickly from grey to pink and she sneezes and looks and looks and looks back at us. Look, look, look how God has answered!
“The world seems so different when you look at a baby,” says her aunt one day.
Indeed it does. Her lips, how they flicker with emotions that change like light on water. Each one slips away and the moments slip on too, the precious moments I will never have again with this little being that has inexplicably been entrusted to me. And after all the waiting, I just want time to stop and wait for me to catch up and catch on to what a wonder it is to be holding this fresh new being, this Answer straight from God.
